Los Tips de Carly...

Hoy quiero compartirles algo que lei en el blog de Carly Morgan http://www.disneyweddingblog.com, me encanta porque siempre sube cosas relacionadas con bodas en disney que son espectaculares... pues bueno, ella hoy cumple 3 años de casada y compartió algunos tips que ha aprendido en su tiempo de casada, que me gustaron y creo q pondré en práctica.

• About 90% of the time, it doesn't actually matter if you're right. You can be as right as you want, but if you just ruined your evening fighting about it than you're just going to be as miserable as the person sitting next to you (even if they're wrong, wrong, wrong!). 

este es buenazoooooo, lo tengo que seguir... xq mi viejo muchas veces está MAL, MAL, MAL!! jaja

• Forgiveness means really, truly putting something behind you. Bringing up past wrongs is a very female thing to do, but it doesn't help and won't make you feel any better regardless of how many apologies you manage to wring out of your husband. Let. It. Go.

Muy ciertoooo... DEJALOOOO IRRRRRRRRRR

• It's important to remember that you need to work on being a wife. Think about how much you love your husband and the type of person you would have wanted him to marry if you weren't in the picture. Be that type of wife.

Nunca lo pensé asi... pero es cierto..

• It's also important to remember that there's life beyond wife. It's OK to take time out to focus on your own goals and projects.

• The only people who need to be involved in most marital discussions are the two of you. Think twice before asking family members, friends, co-workers, or total strangers what they think the right decision is for you guys. If you're asking because you really need some help with perspective, than go ahead. If you're asking because you really want someone else to tell you that you're right and he's wrong, shut up.

Esto lo he aprendido muy dolorosamente... aunque siempre he pensado que los problemas maritales hay q contarselos a tus amigos y jamas a tus familiares, xq cuando te reconcilias a tus familiares se les crea como un rencorsito... feo, feo

• Having children is a magical, wonderful thing. So is not having children. If you decide to have kids, be sure to squeeze out as much magical/wonderful from being childless before you make the leap. You'll spend a lot of time looking back fondly at those last-minute road trips and indulgent late brunches once it's all diapers and baby food.

• Keep finding new things to share, whether they're hobbies, goals, or friends. It's good to find situations where you can be excited together. 

• If you're amazingly, wildly, happily married, you don't have to tell everyone you know (since you're probably just annoying people). The only person you have to tell is your husband.

creo q esto es importante... porque por lo regular la ultima persona en enterarse es tu pareja... ademas de que es bonito tener retroalimentacion no??

• Never come home from the grocery store without something that tells your husband you were thinking about him. At the same time, don't expect a treat every time he goes to the store or you might find yourself rifling through the bags while saying something along the lines of, "Wait...did you seriously only buy milk and batteries?"

jaja este tip se me hizo gracioso... yo soy buenaza para llegar con el pan de mi viejo... le encantaaaa!

• If you hit an impasse and you feel like you aren't as connected as you want to be, take your marriage in for a tune-up. We've gone in for marriage counseling sessions randomly whenever we feel a little...meh. It always fixes things right up and, if anything, we walk out stronger than ever. Much better to do it often than wait for big problems to pile up on each other!

no entiendo bien lo de la terapia... al menos la de pareja a mi no me funcionó y nada mas fue una perdida de dinero... pero el estar leyendo libros de superacion personal, relaciones y amor me ha servido muchisimo mas!